-by Brenda Cullerton
220 pages (2003)
An intriguing and touching collection of family memories"As mother taught me, life was a stage - a real stage, with no metaphor intended - and everyone on it but us was an extra."
-The Nearly Departed: Or, My Family & Other Foreigners
Far from prosaic and most definitely diverting, Brenda Cullerton’s unabashedly candid memoir “The Nearly Departed: Or, My Family & Other Foreigners” is a refreshing departure from the autobiographical norm. Dancing between dark humour, stinging wit and poignant life realities, the author’s recollections of her wildly outlandish family are often more bitter than sweet. To be sure, the collective confessions from the ‘Cullerton Family Crypt’ will have you sobbing, guffawing, sighing, and feeling strangely schizophrenic – all in one chapter.
The truth is, Brenda Cullerton’s family would raise anyone’s eyebrow. At the forefront of these eccentric anecdotes are her parents – a social misfit mother who gardened in baggy black undies, lavish jewelry coupled with pop-it beads, and her hair bedecked in curlers; and an alcoholic father who was usually found anywhere but home, and amassed a hidden fortune as traveling businessman in the shoe trade (only to later hide his cash in their dilapidated barn, stuffed in the toes of moldy footwear).
Now in their winter years, Brenda Cullerton’s parents - suffering from ill health - evoke her return to this alien landscape called “home”. As the author painstakingly sifts through piles of family memories encountered along the way, not only does she learn more about these virtual “foreigners” who are family, but ultimately discovers herself and the all reasons for her insatiable desire to escape the past.
Artfully and intelligently captured on paper, it is Cullerton’s ingenuous journey through introspection which makes “The Nearly Departed” quite nearly flawless.
(Commissioned review for Time Warner books)
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